RECOMMENDED BOOKS ON LASTING DESIRE IN RELATIONSHIPS
If you're facing desire fatigue (the idea that we lose desire the longer we're in a relationship) this is the book you need to help you understand why desire wanes- and what needs to shift to regain it. You can catch a little snippet of the ideas in this book in her TED Talk or order a copy here.
This is one of the best-loved sex therapy books among relationship professionals, so if you're willing to read a VERY long book (or just jump to sections that speak to you) this is a great book to help you shift decreasing or differing desire patterns between you. Order it here.
If you're looking to rekindle things and jump-start with some action this book has helped many couples. Like Passionate marriage, it is largely heterosexual and monogamy-centered, but does provide some helpful information for couples willing to try anything to bring the fire back. Check it out here.
Most of us don’t have a great background in sex education, partly because the information most of us learned is WAY outdated- especially when it comes to arousal, intimacy and desire. This book is a perfect gateway to being a better lover through better sexual understanding. You can check out the author’s incredible TED Talk here if you want to get a taste before ordering the book.
Let me be completely honest here, I’m only halfway through this one and I’ve already been recommending it like MAD. It’s that good. Anyone partnered with a woman or identifying as one needs to read this. Again, it’s that good.