polyamory counseling | couples therapy | couples workshop | sex therapist portland

Progressive. Unique. Egalitarian. Open. Atheist. Feminist. Liberal. Non-monogamous. Kinky. Polyamorous. Creative.

Whatever terms you're using, I love love in all forms.

Maybe mainstream ideas about relationships aren't a fit for you.  

Maybe you've outgrown the patterns you set up when you first got together.  

Maybe the relationship models your parents gave you aren't what you want.  

Maybe you've realized most cultural relationship norms are actually pretty unhealthy.

You're ready to re-think the way you've done relationships in the past.

You want new connection and communication patterns that align with your values.

You're ready to cultivate the relationship of your dreams.


I can help you...

  • renew passion desire, arousal, and intimacy between you

  • move past jealousy, insecurity or codependency

  • resolve sexual disconnection and distance

  • break unhealthy communication patterns and develop sustainable healthy ones

  • figure out if consensual non-monogamy is right for you (and if so, what kind of boundaries you need to make it work)


For ten years I've helped thousands of couples:

  • overcome desire fatigue and long-term relationship blahs.

  • repair trust after affairs and rebuild connected partnerships. 

  • tailor non-monogamy agreements to each of your unique desires.

  • learn skills to communicate with authenticity.

  • explore sexuality, deepen intimacy, and build lasting passionate bonds.

I help clients build long-lasting fulfilling relationships with integrity. 

Couples leave this work confident, connected, and ready to maintain long-term passionate partnerships.

Read more about my background, or schedule a consultation now to start a conversation about the love you want to have.



 tools for polyamory | polyamory worksheet | poly workshop | RELATIONSHIP WORKSHEET | COUPLES THERAPY WORKSHEETS

Click the images to download resources for your relationship.

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I've created a few workbooks for folks who like o learn at their own pace based on nearly fifteen years working with clients to build trust, navigate open relationships, and move past jealousy.  Click the images below for more information.

I’m leaving our session understanding him so much better.
And I finally (after six years) feel understood.
— Clara & Sean, London, U.K.