Overcoming Trust Issues in Healthy Relationships
Jun
14
12:00 PM12:00

Overcoming Trust Issues in Healthy Relationships

Join this month's free call to learn the five foundations of trust and how to nourish them in the relationships that matter most to you.

Here's what we'll cover:

1. The trust we've uncovered in research about trust in relationships.

2. How to cultivate more self-trust.

3. Practices to nourish trust in your intimate partnerships.

4. How to repair trust when it's been broken.

We'll end with a quick coaching session to answer your specific questions about trust in your own relationship!

When you register I'll send you an access code for my free relationship tool library, which includes eight specific tools and guides for healthy communication.

And you'll get a copy of my workbook, Overcoming Trust Issues in Romantic Relationships.

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Healthy Conflicts Skills for Couples
Jul
12
12:00 PM12:00

Healthy Conflicts Skills for Couples

Join this month's free call to learn the skills and solutions commonly practiced in successful non-traditional relationships.

Here's what we'll cover:

1. The five simple rules to fighting better that create a foundation for healthy conflict.

2. Three essential skills to manage intense emotions when they come up in conversation.

3. How to interrupt cyclical conflicts (the ones that just keep coming up again and again and again and again).

4. How to reach a meaningful resolution and feel heard once and for all.

We'll end with a quick coaching session to answer your specific questions about conflict in your own relationship!

When you register I'll send you an access code for my free relationship tool library, which includes eight specific tools and guides for healthy communication. And you'll get a copy of my workbook, Five Simple Ways to Fight Better Now.

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Managing Jealousy & Insecurity in Healthy Relationships
Aug
16
12:00 PM12:00

Managing Jealousy & Insecurity in Healthy Relationships

Join this month's free call to learn the skills you need to manage the intensity of jealousy and insecurity so they don't negatively impact the relationships that matter most to you.

Here's what we'll cover:

1. How to identify, interrupt, and befriend your jealous reactions.

2. Skills to channel your reactive emotions for stronger connection.

3. How to communicate effectively when insecurity and jealousy come up.

4. Practices to nourish trust in your intimate partnerships.

We'll end with a quick coaching session to answer your specific questions about jealousy and insecurity in your own relationship!

When you register I'll send you an access code for my free relationship tool library, which includes eight specific tools and guides for healthy communication.

And you'll get a copy of my workbook, Managing Jealousy in Romantic Relationships.

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COMPASSIONATE COMMUNICATION SKILLS
Sep
13
12:00 PM12:00

COMPASSIONATE COMMUNICATION SKILLS

Join this month's free call to learn the kind of communication skills you need but likely never learned to deeply connect in long-term relationships.

Here's what we'll cover:

1. How to get clear about what you think, feel, and need.

2. Clearly asking for what you want.

3. Setting healthy boundaries- with care.

4. Listening for deeper connection in intimate partnerships.

We'll end with a quick coaching session to answer your specific questions about jealousy and insecurity in your own relationship!

When you register I'll send you an access code for my free relationship tool library, which includes eight specific tools and guides for healthy communication.

And you'll get a copy of my compassionate communication guidelines to use at home!

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Make it Work: Managing a Household and Staying in Love
Oct
11
12:00 PM12:00

Make it Work: Managing a Household and Staying in Love

Join this month's free call to learn more about the NUMBER ONE thing couples come into my office complaining about: managing a household (together) and staying in love.

Here's what we'll cover:

1. How to get clear about what you think, feel, and need.

2. How to equally share household management responsibilities.

3. Setting healthy boundaries- with care.

4. Staying passionately and intimately connected while managing a full life and home.

We'll end with a quick coaching session to answer your specific questions about balancing life, mundane tasks, and intimate connection in your own relationship!

When you register I'll send you an access code for my free relationship tool library, which includes eight specific tools and guides for healthy communication.

And you'll get a copy of my Household Management Plan for Couples to use at home!

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Healthy Holiday Love: Staying Connected All Season
Nov
15
12:00 PM12:00

Healthy Holiday Love: Staying Connected All Season

The holiday season is filled with great fun- and great stress. Join this month's call to learn how to avoid letting the stress of the holiday hustle come between you.


Here's what we'll cover:

1. How to get clear about what you think, feel, and need from your partner and family members.

2. How to plan meaningfully connected holiday celebrations- together.

3. Ways to support each other and ask for what you need.

4. Staying passionately and intimately connected while navigating the holiday hustle.

5. How to navigate stress-induced holiday conflicts effectively.


We'll end with a quick coaching session to answer your specific questions about celebrating with intention, staying connected amid holiday hustle, and avoiding stress-induced conflict in your relationship this time of year!

When you register I'll send you an access code for my free relationship tool library, which includes eight specific tools and guides for healthy communication.

And you'll get a copy of my Healthy Holidays Guide for Couples to use at home!

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Annual Relationship Review: Ending the Year Strong as a Couple
Dec
13
12:00 PM12:00

Annual Relationship Review: Ending the Year Strong as a Couple

Every year I lead a small group of couples through a review process to identify their strengths, celebrate successes, and clarify a vision for the coming year.

Join this month's call to walk through this joyous intention-setting process to deepen the connection between you and someone you love.

Here's what we'll cover:

1. Clarifying your strengths together and major accomplishments of the year.

2. Identifying what you want to learn from the year to grow together in a positive direction.

3. Skills to let go of the past and move forward with intention.

4. Creating a shared vision for a successful 2020 and an actionable plan to make it happen.


We'll end with a quick coaching session to answer your unique relationship questions.

When you register I'll send you an access code for my free relationship tool library, which includes eight specific tools and guides for healthy communication.

And you'll get a copy of my Annual Relationship Review guide to use at home!

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Six Forms of Intimacy and Deeper Connection in Relationships
May
10
12:00 PM12:00

Six Forms of Intimacy and Deeper Connection in Relationships

Join this month's very intimate free call to learn what you need to know to sustain intimacy in long-term relationships.

Here's what we'll cover:

1. The six forms of intimacy you need to sustain vibrant fulfilling relationships.

2. How to cultivate intimate friendships without breaking trust.

3. How to manage insecurity in relationships.

4. How to better balance independence and meaningful connection in intimate partnerships.

We'll end with a quick coaching session to answer your specific questions about intimacy in your own relationship!

When you register I'll send you an access code for my free relationship tool library, which includes eight specific tools and guides for healthy communication and boundaries. It also hosts my consent and intimacy guides for passionate partnerships.

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Compassionate Boundaries for Lasting Relationships
Apr
12
12:00 PM12:00

Compassionate Boundaries for Lasting Relationships

Join this month's free call to learn the basics of setting healthy boundaries- without being mean.

Here's what we'll cover:

1. How to identify where stronger boundaries are needed in your life.

2. How to ask for what you need.

3. How to say no- without worrying about hurting others.

4. How to better respect the boundaries of the people all around you.

We'll end with a quick coaching session to answer your specific questions about conflict in your own relationship!

When you register I'll send you an access code for my free relationship tool library, which includes eight specific tools and guides for healthy communication and boundaries.

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Healthy Conflicts and Communication Skills for Couples
Mar
8
12:00 AM00:00

Healthy Conflicts and Communication Skills for Couples

Join this month's free call to learn the skills and solutions commonly practiced in successful non-traditional relationships.

Here's what we'll cover:

1. The five simple rules to fighting better that create a foundation for healthy conflict.

2. Three essential skills to manage intense emotions when they come up in conversation.

3. How to interrupt cyclical conflicts (the ones that just keep coming up again and again and again and again).

4. How to reach a meaningful resolution and feel heard once and for all.

We'll end with a quick coaching session to answer your specific questions about conflict in your own relationship!

When you register I'll send you an access code for my free relationship tool library, which includes eight specific tools and guides for healthy communication. And you'll get a copy of my workbook, Five Simple Ways to Fight Better Now.

Sign up today and join the conversation!

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Privacy, Secrecy, & Honesty in Open Relationships
Dec
12
10:00 AM10:00

Privacy, Secrecy, & Honesty in Open Relationships

Everything you need to know about privacy, secrecy honesty and open relationships in a one-hour free coaching call online.

Join this month's free call to learn the skills and solutions commonly practiced in successful non-monogamous relationships from the foremost couples expert on consensual non-monogamy.

Once you've registered you'll receive the details on how to connect to our private conversation line.

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Celebrations, Holidays & Open Relationships
Nov
12
10:00 AM10:00

Celebrations, Holidays & Open Relationships

The holidays can be stressful for anyone in a relationship, but more relationships can mean more stress.

Join this month's free call to learn the skills and solutions commonly practiced in successful non-monogamous relationships from the foremost couples expert on consensual non-monogamy.

Once you've registered you'll receive the details on how to connect to our private conversation line.

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Trust & Open Relationships
Oct
24
1:00 PM13:00

Trust & Open Relationships

Even the most successful communicators can feel overwhelmed by the emotions and logistical challenges of first-time consensual non-monogamy. If you're having trouble you're not alone.  

Learn the essential skills for healthy communication in open relationships from a ten-year couples therapist specializing in consensual non-monogamy.

Once you've registered you'll receive the details on how to connect to our private conversation line.

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OPENING UP COUPLES RETREAT
Oct
20
to Oct 21

OPENING UP COUPLES RETREAT

If you're wondering...


Is non-monogamy right for me (or us)?
How would we even start to open our relationship?
How do I know what I need to ask for? 
What if I get jealous when we start seeing other people?
How will we slow things down if they start getting out of hand?
What kinds of boundaries or expectations are realistic in open relationships?
How can we stay connected if we see other people?
What do we need to do to make sure this doesn't split us up?


... this is the right retreat for you.

NO MORE OVERWHELM AND ISOLATION
Often thinking outside the box about relationships can be a little lonely. You might have great friends, but they're not always the most open-minded when we talk about changing the way we love.

And sometimes getting creative relationships can be overwhelming. Most of us aren't taught great relationship skills in the first place- let alone given the tools to tailor relationships to our unique needs and personal growth.

Rather than stay overwhelmed and isolated we gather together to build friendship, share tools, gain resources, reflect, grow, and laugh. Join us in October 2018.

 
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