I love love, in all its forms!

Over the last eight years, I have helped thousands of couples explore sexuality with connection and courage, and build sustainable trusting partnerships.

Many of my clients have worked to create communication skills to open relationships with integrity and compassion and maintain long-term partnerships with passion.

I can help you...

  • rediscover passion in long-term relationships

  • manage jealousy, insecurity, and codependency

  • repair trust after an affair

  • open your relationship or practice polyamory

  • communicate effectively without cyclical arguments

  • come out kinky, queer, or non-monogamous


Not all of my clients are non-monogamous, even my more traditional couples love working with me because of my non-judgmental open-minded approach.  

I offer sex-positive counseling with knowledgeable services for newly kinky couples and long-time BDSM practitioners and welcome loving partners in all sorts of relationship arrangements who want to talk about love, sex, and communication.



I offer sessions for couples in Southeast Portland, OR on Thursdays and North Portland, OR on Tuesdays (see maps for locations and directions).  

Sessions are 75 minutes and $150/session.  Initial sessions are 90 minutes and $200.

I do not process insurance payments because I don't want to share your private information with a corporation.  However, I can provide you with a bill and you can likely be reimbursed.  


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Polyamory Counseling Portland | Uncommon Love Nonmonogamy Counseling, LGBT Affirming Therapy, and Sex-Positive Therapist in Portland, Oregon